Hi guys, I coming today with very sad news, Im shattered, I thought that Im a thought guy but I flood in teras. I discovered that my 8 year old son was sexually abused by his two years older neighbourhood friend! 
Three days ago I let them come inside the house to play because it was cold and windy outside. I was busy in my room with my stuff and they where in the living room, but I decided to go check on them. What I saw just destroyed me inside! My son was crouching and looking through his toy box for something and his friend came up to him grabbed his head and started to moving his hips to my sons face like you know what... He didn't know Im watching because I was silent, but in the moment I saw that I said to stop it before my son did! When he saw me he run out the room and I said to him to go out. When he left I asked my son did he did anything like this to him before and he said YES! I was shattered I said to my son to stay in the house and I went to that boys home to speak with his parents. I met only his mother and told her what happened and she told me that she knows that he is doing things like that and that its from the school! I asked her to have a word with him and left. After 5 minutes she gave me a call that she talked with him and that he knows this from school fiends and that he does not know what it means. I told her if its a school thing she should report that but she didn't say she will, just sorry and that's it. Next day I went to school to ask did they received any report from her and as I suspected NO! So I told them what happened. They where in shock same as I was and still am. A the moment Police is involved, School and Social Security. Im just praying and hoping that nothing worse that this inappropriate acting happened to my son. More to that, my son was experiencing rejection and bulling based on my nationality because I wasn't born in UK but he is, most of the time when he was going out to play with kids he was running back home crying Once he was thrown with stone in the face which leaved him a scar, not to long ago he fell off his scooter when he was chased by the bullies and hurt his arm, but I never did anything abut this when I should, My bad but I was hoping that this will end. Now this came out and the line is crossed. My boy is such a fragile and sensitive, he cries when you want kill a spider, he is so life curious, he asks about everything, most of the time about space and life itself, he gets green notes at school for being good and hard working and yet he experiences such a BS form friends he basically knows since he was two years old Im Shattered and what hits me as well is the fact that I had very good friends in my childhood and he don't Im having a mental breakdown because of this situation but will do my best to stay professional if you do any business with me. Please look after your kids and always check on them. And never wait for happy end if they experience any bulling! Report right away! I don't know will I be able to make any update to this Thread if the investigation will turn bad for us but I will if it will end good. Thank you!
Three days ago I let them come inside the house to play because it was cold and windy outside. I was busy in my room with my stuff and they where in the living room, but I decided to go check on them. What I saw just destroyed me inside! My son was crouching and looking through his toy box for something and his friend came up to him grabbed his head and started to moving his hips to my sons face like you know what... He didn't know Im watching because I was silent, but in the moment I saw that I said to stop it before my son did! When he saw me he run out the room and I said to him to go out. When he left I asked my son did he did anything like this to him before and he said YES! I was shattered I said to my son to stay in the house and I went to that boys home to speak with his parents. I met only his mother and told her what happened and she told me that she knows that he is doing things like that and that its from the school! I asked her to have a word with him and left. After 5 minutes she gave me a call that she talked with him and that he knows this from school fiends and that he does not know what it means. I told her if its a school thing she should report that but she didn't say she will, just sorry and that's it. Next day I went to school to ask did they received any report from her and as I suspected NO! So I told them what happened. They where in shock same as I was and still am. A the moment Police is involved, School and Social Security. Im just praying and hoping that nothing worse that this inappropriate acting happened to my son. More to that, my son was experiencing rejection and bulling based on my nationality because I wasn't born in UK but he is, most of the time when he was going out to play with kids he was running back home crying Once he was thrown with stone in the face which leaved him a scar, not to long ago he fell off his scooter when he was chased by the bullies and hurt his arm, but I never did anything abut this when I should, My bad but I was hoping that this will end. Now this came out and the line is crossed. My boy is such a fragile and sensitive, he cries when you want kill a spider, he is so life curious, he asks about everything, most of the time about space and life itself, he gets green notes at school for being good and hard working and yet he experiences such a BS form friends he basically knows since he was two years old Im Shattered and what hits me as well is the fact that I had very good friends in my childhood and he don't Im having a mental breakdown because of this situation but will do my best to stay professional if you do any business with me. Please look after your kids and always check on them. And never wait for happy end if they experience any bulling! Report right away! I don't know will I be able to make any update to this Thread if the investigation will turn bad for us but I will if it will end good. Thank you!
