Sad to say....

Owain

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Thank you to everyone that wished Lou well yesterday. Unfortunately I am very sad to say that Lou lost the baby this morning
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Oh sh*t, so sorry to hear this. Hope you and your good lady are as well as you can be at a time like this
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Hi Owain,

So sorry to hear this. It's an unfortunate sad place to be - I have been here myself - infact I was shocked to learn after how common this is in humans.

You need to be there for her and comfort her and do all the good man stuff. Chin up for you too, things do work out and if you are trying I am sure things will be fine next time around - that's what happened to us.
 

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Alpha1 said:
Hi Owain,

So sorry to hear this. It's an unfortunate sad place to be - I have been here myself - infact I was shocked to learn after how common this is in humans.

You need to be there for her and comfort her and do all the good man stuff. Chin up for you too, things do work out and if you are trying I am sure things will be fine next time around - that's what happened to us.

Yeah, we are hoping for the same too
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Hi Owain,

Yes this is a very sad indeed, however it is quite common and not often spoke of, being of an extremely delicate personal point. I have friends and family which have gone through this, and most often next time round the 'body' is reset and things are better, this is of course no consolation to loss. :-( As the others have said, be strong and support your lady with the help of friends and family too.

All the best,
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Owain

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Just when I think the situation can't get any worse it suddenly does. At 4am this morning Lou delivered the stillborn baby. It was very small but you could clearly make out its features. Then the hospital goes and makes it even worse by asking if they can keep the baby to carry out some experiments (please note that they really do mean experiments, not tests as they say there is no possible way of knowing the cause) I am hoping that people would understand why I refused.
 

Owain

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Despite all of that Lou and I would like to thank everyone for their support and kind words at this terrible time. We really appreciate it.
 

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That does seem incredibly insensitive. I'm happy to donate myself when I'm gone but I am certain I'd have a different view if it was a child of mine.

Look after each other dude. Good luck.
 
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