Just an update on this. I had a week between jobs and they're now 2/3 made.
Painful, I'm never, ever, ever hand soldering these again.
Annoyingly the heatsink clips I specced are now unobtainable, so I'll have to drill and tap 40 holes for Triacs

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So getting there (really!), just taking a while.
After all the pain I would prefer to spread the 10 around as much as possible and if anyone needs multiples, maybe I could do another batch next year where I'll try to get clued-up on getting them pre-built by a PCB supplier (just the IC sockets, resistors and capacitors are 75% of the pain)